You can be body-positive and still have preferences.
You can be a feminist and still love men.
You can be sex-positive without being interested in casual sex.
People seem to forget that the core principle of all of these is as simple as not being an asshole.
:bowdown: perfect summary. the people who get all butt hurt when you talk about your preferences and shit are the ass hole elitists who just want a reason to hate and look intellectual.